Monday, 28 September 2009

Filling in the Colours

“No one can get an education, for of necessity education is a continuing process. A teacher is only a guide to point out the way and no school, no matter how excellent, can give you education. What you receive is like the outlines in a child’s colouring book. You must fill in the colours by yourself.”


Louis L’Amour (1908 – 1988), who left school at 15 and became a prolific author of American Western novels.


I found this interesting quote by Louis L’Amour and felt I had to share it with you. It caused me to ponder on the different ways that one could “fill in the colours” by one’s self. What do you think? How could you do some filling in?

I think we could do this in 3 ways:

1. Acquiring all the knowledge, skills and experiences we need to achieve our life’s goals.

2. Getting all the personal development to turn us into who we need to be, in order to lay hold of our dreams.

3. Seizing all the opportunities we can, creating them where possible.

Could you add some more?

I think the important part of the quote is the “by yourself” part. To achieve our dreams and aspirations we’ve got to be proactive. And as Anthony Robbins says, take massive action. Without procrastination. In fact it’s massive, immediate action!

How could you take some massive, immediate action, filling in the colours by yourself, to achieve an outrageous goal today? Haven’t got an outrageous goal? Please stop for a moment and set one up right away, while the iron is still hot! Set yourself an outrageous goal today and go for it, massively. That’s what I’m doing at the moment, and though it could be frightening, I like what I’m achieving.

Care to share your outrageous goal? Go on, commit yourself. Just hit reply and spell it out. A written goal is a nearly-done goal!

Copyright 2009 Oma Edoja

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Friday, 14 August 2009

Still Plan-less and Goal-less?

We all know that planning can significantly increase our chances of success. We’ve heard it over and over how only 3% of all people have written goals and are the successful ones. Everyone knows they should have some kind of plan. But in reality, most of us still carry on, plan-less and goal-less, and wonder why we don’t succeed.


I am swallowing my own medicine here. I’ve always known my business should have a plan, and indeed I do have one. But the way I usually work is to take out sections of my business plan and then generate micro, daily ones. And I haven’t done this in a while. However, I have recently recommitted to my own success and as I write this piece, my written micro-plan lies on the table beside me! All of a sudden, the frustration and confusion have faded away. Now I know what I should be doing each day, how much of it and when. As long as I am patient and consistent, my efforts will compound and I will get where I am headed. This proven strategy has worked for me every time. Phew! That medicine sure tasted good!


Is there some area of your life where you know a written plan could make all the difference? Have you been procrastinating about it? My recommendation is this: If your own success is important to you, schedule a 30 minute planning session with yourself, within the next 24 hours. Can’t free up the time and space? You could have your planning session on the ride home from work, while you wait your turn in the salon/barbers’, or over lunch. You may not be able to quieten the world around you, but you can quieten the world within you, and then get to work. Just set your 3 most important goals. Next, break them down into smaller tasks, setting completion dates for each. Try to do at least one thing on your plan each day. Forgive yourself if you slip up, and then get back on track. And of course, celebrate your victories. It’ll only be a matter of time before you reach your target.


Copyright © 2009 Oma Edoja

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Tuesday, 11 August 2009

Where is Your Comfort Zone?

Do you have one? It’s possible you are sitting there right now! A comfort zone is a place where we stay because we feel safe there, in familiar surroundings. No unsettling surprises. No uncomfortable stretching. Just the familiar sights and sounds that we've grown used to. Sounds like a nice place, doesn't it? Well, not all, if any, comfort zones are nice. They can be negative places and experiences, with toxic people all around. They could hold us captive and steal our dreams. But because we are at least familiar with our comfort zones, and know what to expect, we become "acclimatized" to the negativity and toxins. And so we stay there.


Your comfort zone could be the safe place of poverty and underachievement. It doesn't feel good. You envy those who have fled it. But you can't see life any other way. Just where or how would you start? The last person you know who escaped "The Zone" spent several years studying far into the night. And kept talking of a new career and retraining. Then there was that couple down the road who gave up their steady (but low-paid) jobs. You heard they started a business together. Good for them, but frightening to you. Imagine what it would be like if you failed! Your comfort zone could be an abusive relationship, a self-sabotaging habit, a dead-end job or a boring routine. But because it is what you know, and are used to, you stick with it.


Why not take a moment to examine your current life and career situations? Are you in a comfort zone? Are your present habits, values, choices and associations moving you forward or holding you captive? Following are some points to ponder:

1. If you consider yourself to be in a comfort zone at present, describe this zone.

2. What would your life look like 5 years from now, if you remained in your comfort zone?

3. Why do you think you remain in your comfort zone? If you have fears, name these.

4. What, if anything, could you gain from leaving your comfort zone?

5. Do you want whatever it is that you stand to gain from leaving this zone?

6. What would it take for you to leave this zone?

7. Are you willing to do whatever it takes to leave your comfort zone?

8. What support do you need to help you leave your comfort zone?

9. How could you obtain this support?

10. When are you ready to take action? Put in place a written plan. Seek the support you require and get started.


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Tuesday, 14 July 2009

Coasts Enlarging

Hi dear visitor,

I'm in a "really cool" mood right now! Why? Because my coasts are enlarging!
After practicing coaching and personal development as hobbies for the past 3 or 4 years I have finally set up as a professional coach. Yep, my brand new coaching practice is gearing up to launch in September this year!

I'm in high spirits because this has been a dream I've held onto for many years. Somehow, life got in the way, but I've managed to keep pressing forward and now my dream's a reality!

Are you pressing forward with any of your dreams at present? I urge you not to give up. I literally went through "hell and high water" to achieve my dream. No one said it would be easy, right? In fact, "easy" is for average or below average people. You and I are of a different kind! So we’ve got to keep on pressing, till we get “there.”
My new coaching practice is called Career and Life Renew, a.k.a. CLR. My "shop window" is currently under construction, but if you hop on down to www.careerandliferenew.com there's presently a gift on offer. I plan on taking it down once the site is ready so do hurry.

Career and Life Renew is geared to offer support to smart and savvy working women who want more in their lives and careers. Sorry guys, this isn't discrimination! I just had to narrow my niche for better business building. But guys are welcome too as the tips and resources on offer will benefit us all.

Our flagship service is the CLR Life and Career Makeover, and I'm really excited about this! We'll be helping women achieve better self-awareness and self-appreciation, to find out what options are out there for them, and to support them in getting there. They’ll be reinventing themselves and their careers! At CLR we believe today's woman can have her cake and eat it. She can have the kind of career that not only satisfies but allows her to have the life she wants. This is an absolute must for me in my life, and I know that many of you want it too. I am happy to have carved out the work I love around the life I love. Being quite a night owl this means I can work all night and sleep all morning. I'll also be taking time out this week to go and watch my son play football. A working mother’s bliss!

Forgive me if I've been ranting. As I said, I'm in high spirits! And I'd like to share the joy with you too. So please take a trip to www.careerandliferenew.com if you’d like more info on the life and career makeover. Who knows, by this time next year you could also be doing the work you love, around the life you love!

I hope to meet with you at CareerandLifeRenew.com And please bring your friends!

All the best,

Oma

Career and Life Coach,
Reinvent Your Life, Revitalize Your Career!
www.careerandliferenew.com
info@careerandliferenew.com